Anything A Man Gives You In The Relationship Stage Is A GIFT not a RIGHT - Africaflavour 

By Tina Johnson

Anything A Man Gives You In The Relationship Stage Is A GIFT not a RIGHT - Africaflavour

Anything A Man Gives You In The Relationship Stage Is A GIFT not a RIGHT - Africaflavour

Dear ladies, that you are in a relationship doesn't make the man your ATM


Should I tell you the truth?


You are not his responsibility until he marries you, take it or leave it.


You are still your parents responsibility as long as you still bear your dad's name.


The day you drop your father's name and start bearing his name, that is when your father automatically transfers his responsibility (you) to him... Of which you are expected to be his helpmeet and support him and not a liability 


Anything a man gives you in the relationship stage is a GIFT not a RIGHT.


Because you are dating that innocent brother doesn't mean that you should suck up his whole bank account.


Your house rent is on him😱

Your hair bill is on him😱

Your nails, subscription, water, nepa and DSTV bills all on him.😱😱

Haba anuty, pity him na...


If he decides to give you money, collect it ooo, you deserve to be pampered. But do not put him on unnecessary pressure to pay your bills. 


Learn to be an independent woman, anything your fiance gives you should be a bonus.


My brothers, I did not come to encourage you to be stingy because women love to be pampered. Your woman needs to be taken care of. Buy her good pants, bra, handbags, weavon.

Let her look beautiful for you.


Don't go into a relationship if you are not ready to sacrifice (it's goes both ways and not just the man). 


Sacrifices does not mean that you have to buy the whole world for her, just a little surprise can go a long way. It's about the intentions and not the weight of the money.


If you are stingy in a relationship you will never be a responsible husband.


Marriage don't change people, you just continue from where you stopped in the relationship.